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Qualified Heart Sync Minister

Find Lasting Inner Healing with Ruth

I help Christian women find joy & flourishing relationships with skills and prayer that gave my life and marriage JOY!!!

The Transformation You Can Expect:

  • Restore your joy and intimacy with God.

  • Understand how your brain works

  • Complete inner freedom

  • Experience Joy and purpose

How I Can Help:

  • 1-1 tailored coaching in experiencing JOY! This is what is missing in so many relationships - we are just going through the motions.

  • Training for groups and ministries and churches.

  • Uncover root issues with insightful prayer. HeartSync can heal things other ministries miss.

  • Gentle, compassionate approach

  • Proven success with 30+ clients

  • Qualified Heart Sync Minister and trained in The Life Model. 20+ years equipping Christians.

About Ruth:

"I am a qualified HeartSync Minister, Educator and Joy Coach who helps Christian women experience the abundant life they were created for through proven brain-based skills and life-changing prayer. My own journey from chronic fatigue syndrome and childhood trauma to vibrant wholeness gives me unique insight into how God rewires our brains for joy and healing.
Drawing from the Life Model's revolutionary research and my extensive training in HeartSync ministry, I guide women to experience deeper freedom without having to repeatedly revisit past pain. Having overcome 16 years of chronic fatigue syndrome through brain retraining in just 28 days, I understand firsthand how combining prayer with practical relational skills creates lasting transformation.
My unique approach combines:
• HeartSync Prayer that helps synchronize fragmented parts of your heart
• Life Model brain skills that build joy and emotional resilience
• 20+ years of prayer ministry experience
• Personal victory over complex PTSD and chronic illness
• Proven results helping others find freedom from trauma
• A marriage transformed from struggling to thriving
Together with my husband Mike through Joyskills Ministry, we don't just teach theory - we live these principles daily. Our marriage journey from disconnection to joyful partnership demonstrates the power of these tools when applied consistently.Unlike traditional counseling that often keeps you focused on past wounds, I offer practical pathways to freedom that honor your story while building new neural pathways for joy. Through HeartSync Prayer sessions and innovative brain training, you can experience the peace and intimate connection with God you long for.As someone who has walked through deep healing myself, I create a safe, compassionate space for transformation. I understand both the neuroscience of trauma and the gentle work of the Holy Spirit in bringing lasting freedom. My mission is helping Christian women move beyond surviving to truly thriving in their relationships with God, themselves and others."

Next Steps:

  • Book a free clarity call to see if working together is a good fit. Get on the path to sustainable inner healing in as little as 3 sessions.

  • Limited availability due to my personal approach.

Say Yes to Lasting Transformation

"The most competent coach for pastors that I know. There is no-one else more capable that I could recommend" Bishop Bill Atwood

Helping Leaders Grow

I help overwhelmed but outwardly successful leaders understand your relationships & experience wellbeing. Using skills that helped my marriage and church to flourish.

Benefits You Can Expect:

  • Avoid burnout

  • Be happier and more relational

  • Build vibrant, emotionally intelligent people

  • Create sustainable communities, Lead with fresh vision.

  • Gain clarity and implement positive change

  • Cut out wasted time using proven AI tools

How It Works:

  • 1-on-1 tailored coaching program

  • Insightful courses

  • Unique mix of brain science, spirituality and AI tools

About Mike:

I help overwhelmed Christian leaders lead happy and dynamic ministries and experience wellbeing without burnout.
After 35 years in Christian ministry and overcoming my own battle with PTSD following a traffic accident, I intimately understand the unique challenges facing today's ministry leaders. Like many of you, I've experienced the tension between outward success and inner depletion. Through my journey of personal transformation and academic pursuit (including two masters degrees in theology of ministry with distinction), I've discovered a pathway to sustainable, joy-filled ministry that I now share with other leaders.
My Journey
What sets my approach apart isn't just theoretical knowledge – it's forged in the crucible of real ministry experience. I've navigated the complexities of:
- Building a thriving church culture while maintaining personal wellbeing
- Integrating modern leadership tools without compromising spiritual depth
- Transforming from survival mode to sustainable ministry
- Discovering how to lead with emotional intelligence while staying true to biblical principles
Unique Qualifications
My expertise combines rigorous academic training with practical ministry experience:
- Advanced training in HeartSync and Life Model methodologies
- Extensive experience in emotional intelligence development
- Proven track record of helping ministry leaders build sustainable teams
- Personal testimony of transformation from burnout to balanced, dynamic ministry
Transformation Framework
Through my work with countless ministry leaders, I've developed a unique approach that integrates:
- Brain-based relational skills that align with God's design
- Practical strategies for sustainable ministry growth
- Biblical wisdom for leadership development
- Modern tools (including AI) that enhance rather than replace spiritual depth
Living Proof
My own journey from overwhelm to overflow demonstrates these principles in action. Together with my wife Ruth, we've experienced firsthand the power of integrating emotional health with spiritual leadership. Our story of moving from disconnection to joy serves as a testament to the transformative power of these principles.
Current Impact
Today, I help ministry leaders:
- Build emotionally healthy church cultures
- Develop sustainable ministry models
- Experience personal renewal while staying in active ministry
- Integrate modern tools with timeless spiritual wisdom
- Create strong, emotionally intelligent leadership teams
My approach combines deep theological understanding with cutting-edge leadership development tools, all grounded in personal experience and proven results.
Remember: Ministry wasn't meant to be a path to burnout – it's meant to be a journey of joy and impact. Let's work together to transform your ministry from overwhelming to overflowing.

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