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You can Find the Happy You

There are


People in the World but only one YOU!

We can help you find your Happy You

Hi I'm Ruth Jones

I can help you to take the next step to being the most joyful, colorful, vibrant expression of who you are. Because that’s how you become the truest version of yourself.  Life becomes better, your walk with God closer and your relationships improve.  You take steps towards becoming what God made you to be.


Jesus called his followers and they grew together. They did not do it alone with a book or in a crowd at a seminar. We have found coaching to be THE BEST WAY to accelerate growth especially when combined with some well-designed training. It's the way that brings fruit and the best results from your time and effort. One step follows another as you walk with someone who can help you on your way.


Many courses and seminars offer information and fascinating tools and tips but fall short of transformation.  Using the Life Model Movement as a model, we teach people 19 skills for happy relationships. Christian psychologists, psychiatrists, theologians, and pastors have developed this system of emotional intelligence and relationship enrichment that is effective and transformative. When we combine that with prayer and coaching we find that God heals hearts and takes people on a journey toward wholeness. You get steps closer to being your happy you.

I can Help You on the next stage of your journey

I would love to help you 
- be happier and more joyful or - leave stuck behind or - find some deep healing in your life.

Let’s see if you are a good fit for me to help you take the next step on your personal journey.

Are You Journeying Towards Inner Happiness?

You may be here because you are making a journey towards inner happiness.

If so, you will find it helpful to focus in on one or two of the skills we train in.

Together we would see where you would like to get to and work towards that goal.

Sometimes its moving forward in relationship with God, other times relationships with others, and sometimes it’s “inner work”.

If this is you then get in touch!

Every blessing


Coach and Prayer Minister

Contact Ruth...

Do you want to Leave Stuck Behind?

You may be here because you feel stuck or you have an area of pain that you would like to move past.

Together we would look at the issues you feel are going on and where you are stuck and in pain.

I will help you grow and heal your emotional capacity, through practicing the insights and tools from our Joyskills resources and brain science.

Being able to help you return to joy and calm from painful emotions is central to my coaching. If this is you, then let’s see if we can work together on this next stage.

Contact Ruth...

Are You Pursuing Gentle Healing and Wondering about Heart Sync Prayer?

You may be here because you have heard one of the amazing stories that come out of HeartSync prayer and you are drawn to receive some heart healing.

Or you may want to meet with God in a deeper way.

If so then we can help you.

I am trained in Heart Sync which is a gentle, safe, yet transformational way of praying. These are 1.5 hour long prayer sessions where we bring the broken parts of our heart to Jesus together to receive his healing.

I am a Heart Sync trained prayer minister - for more information have a look at the Heart Sync website here. We start out with a set of three prayer sessions over a month or so and then review

Contact Ruth...

The appreciation and calming methods that you have taught have already had an immediate and positive impact on my life. I am more peaceful and appreciate many more things in life than I used to.

Julie, UK


Our Story

Ruth & Mike

Sudden panic attacks used to plague Ruth. Prayer could stop them. But we didn't want to pray every night for Ruth to sleep. During our search for a way forward, the Lord led us to Jim Wilder's teaching that we all need 19 brain skills to flourish. When we lack those skills, we lack the resilience to cope with life's difficulties. You can live a more wholehearted Christian life as you develop those skills (Joyskills). The more we developed those skills, the better our relationship became, Ruth's panic attacks stopped, and we gained a deeper understanding of ourselves. 

From the inside out, we trained people in how to grow happiness and joy. That was Joyskills. In his own ministry, Mike used them to create a planner and appreciation journal for his mentoring relationships. People gained an understanding of themselves and grew because of these skills. Furthermore, they helped leaders understand why their own people struggled in their Christian discipleship.

The Lord then gave Mike a vision and told him to investigate HeartSync. Using this method of prayer can help people grow from the inside-out without re-traumatizing them. 

Through our ministry, people get the skills they need to grow and heal from the inside out

People can use these skills for themselves and in their organizations. For example, in church or business, as you spot when people are becoming non-relational, you need to change your approach to them because no-one can effectively work with a client, boss or worker who is in “enemy mode”. Or the other month we were training Korean missionaries who described the training as “paradigm-shifting” and “life-transforming.” Last week, Ruth was praying for people in inner healing or coaching them in skills to grow their relationships and joy. Mike mostly employs the skills and prayer in the local church.

If you would like to find out how the skills can help you, then get in touch with Ruth at [email protected]


What People Say...

What people say about Joyskills

People love the changes in their lives

" Mike and Ruth’s passion and belief in the power of JoySkills techniques to change one’s life really shines through, and gave me faith to believe it could work for me. ''


Luton, UK

" The appreciation and calming methods that you have taught have already had an immediate and positive impact on my life. I am more peaceful and appreciate many more things in life than I used to. ''


Bedfordshire, UK

" Your knowledge of the subject matter, as well as your ability to make everyone feel welcomed and accepted was such an encouragement. ''


Luton, UK

Take your Next Step to Flourishing Now

FAQ: I'm a Christian. Why am I stuck?

Do you feel stuck? Or do people round you need some help? Despite our best efforts, many of us are stuck in our Christian walk and feel stuck in negative patterns of thinking. Maybe you have lost hope things can be better. 

Why is this?

Even though the church trains us to think, they help us pray and they ask God to fill us with His spirit, they often leave us as half-brained spiritual believers. Let me explain. Like us, you may have learned the basics of discipleship, been taught about prayer and spiritual warfare, and developed the fruit of the Spirit. God has spoken to you and shown you his power, but no one has helped you to develop the relational part of your mind. It is time to train your whole mind.

What do we mean?

It is likely that no-one taught you how to develop the part of your brain that stores and processes emotions. Ignoring this area eventually leads to failure. This situation catches many Christian leaders by surprise. In contrast, God designed your brain in such a way that when you understand how he made it, learn some skills, and apply them, you can achieve spiritual, emotional, and relational growth again. This protects you from major conflicts and lessens the power of temptation in the future.

Healing and transformation are possible for you as well as for those around you. It can happen at home, at work, or with friends. There are ways for you and those around you to move from stuck to flourishing. The possibilities are endless. When your right brain and left brain work in harmony with God, you can experience peace, joy, and character transformation.

Using Joyskills for church discipleship provides the missing ingredients for lasting transformation. Developed after 30 years of research and practice by the Christian ministries Life Model and Heart Sync.

We help you

Get past some of your roadworks to personal growth
Improve your relationships
Develop an intimate connection with God
Understand yourself
Live with a sense of your calling and purpose

Go from Stuck to Flourishing!

Try our course on How to Calm Down and Find Peace

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